60 Must-Ask Questions For Your Husband To See If He’s Still Into You

Over time, relationships can sometimes fall into routines, leaving us wondering if the passion and excitement are still there. If you’ve been feeling a little unsure about where you stand, these questions can help you reconnect and understand how your husband feels about your relationship.

Asking the right questions opens the door to honest conversations and keeps the love strong. If you’re looking for a way to see if he’s still as into you as ever, these questions will give you the clarity you need.

Questions About Your Connection

1. How do you feel when we spend time together, just the two of us?
2. What’s something you still love about me that hasn’t changed over the years?
3. How do you feel about the way we connect on an emotional level?
4. What’s your favorite thing about being with me now compared to when we first met?
5. How often do you think about our relationship and what we’ve built together?
6. How do you feel when we’re physically close, even if we’re just sitting side by side?
7. What’s one way I can make you feel more loved on a daily basis?
8. How do you feel when we share small moments, like a morning coffee or a quiet evening at home?
9. What’s something you still find attractive about me, even after all this time?
10. How do you feel about our level of intimacy, and is there something you’d like to change?

Questions About His Feelings

11. How do you feel when I tell you I love you? Does it still mean the same?
12. What’s something that still makes your heart race when you think about me?
13. How do you feel when we talk about our future together?
14. What’s one thing that you miss when we’re apart, even for a short time?
15. How do you feel when I do small things to show I care?
16. What’s something that makes you feel most connected to me emotionally?
17. Do you feel like I still understand you as well as I did when we first got together?
18. How do you feel when I surprise you with something unexpected?
19. What’s one thing about us that you’re still excited about?
20. How do you feel when I ask about your day, your thoughts, or your feelings?

Questions About Romance

21. What’s something romantic I do that always makes you smile?
22. How do you feel when we plan date nights, even if they’re simple?
23. What’s one romantic gesture you’d love for us to do more often?
24. How do you feel about keeping the spark alive in our relationship?
25. What’s something romantic we haven’t done in a while that you miss?
26. How do you feel when we take time for just us, away from everything else?
27. What’s your favorite way for me to show affection?
28. How do you feel about creating more spontaneous moments of romance in our lives?
29. What’s one thing I do that makes you feel desired?
30. How do you want us to keep our romance alive as the years go by?

Questions About Communication

31. How do you feel about the way we talk to each other these days?
32. What’s something we used to talk about more often that you miss?
33. How do you feel when we have deep conversations about life, love, or anything in between?
34. What’s one thing I can do to make you feel more heard and understood?
35. How do you feel when we take time to talk without distractions?
36. What’s something we haven’t talked about in a while that you’d love to discuss again?
37. How do you feel when we work through problems or disagreements together?
38. What’s one way we can communicate better during stressful times?
39. How do you feel when we talk about our dreams and plans for the future?
40. What’s something you think we should talk about more to stay connected?

Questions About Physical Attraction

41. How do you feel when I show affection in public, like holding hands or a quick kiss?
42. What’s something you find physically attractive about me that hasn’t changed?
43. How do you feel when we’re physically close, like cuddling or hugging?
44. What’s one thing you’d love for me to do more to show I’m still attracted to you?
45. How do you feel about our current level of physical intimacy, and is there anything you’d like to change?
46. What’s your favorite way for me to show that I’m still into you?
47. How do you feel when I surprise you with a kiss or touch out of the blue?
48. What’s one way I can make you feel more desired physically?
49. How do you feel when we focus on being close without distractions?
50. What’s something you’d love for us to do together to reignite the physical spark?

Questions About The Future

51. How do you feel about where our relationship is headed?
52. What’s something about our future that you’re excited about?
53. How do you feel when we talk about growing old together?
54. What’s one thing you hope we’ll experience together in the coming years?
55. How do you feel about creating new memories and traditions as we go forward?
56. What’s something you’d love for us to work on together as a couple in the future?
57. How do you feel when we imagine what our life will look like in five or ten years?
58. What’s one thing you’re looking forward to as we continue to grow together?
59. How do you feel about the way we’re planning our future as a team?
60. What’s one thing you hope never changes about us, no matter how much time passes?

Keeping The Love Strong

Relationships evolve over time, but that doesn’t mean the love has to fade. These questions are about making sure your connection remains strong and understanding where things stand. Checking in with your husband like this can reveal how much he still cherishes you and what you can both work on to keep the love alive.

The key is to ask with an open heart, listen without judgment, and embrace the answers as an opportunity to grow closer. No matter how long you’ve been together, these conversations can remind you both why you fell in love in the first place.