Building a connection with someone special can be both exciting and meaningful, especially when shared values and beliefs form the foundation of your relationship.
These 60 questions are designed to help you learn more about your crush’s faith, values, and personal experiences in a Christian context.
By asking these questions, you can deepen your understanding of each other and explore your spiritual journeys together. Whether you’re at the beginning of your relationship or looking to grow closer, these questions will guide your conversations in a thoughtful and engaging way.
Faith and Beliefs
Understanding your crush’s faith and beliefs is essential for building a strong foundation in a Christian relationship. These questions will help you learn about their spiritual journey and core values.
- What does your faith mean to you?
- How did you come to know Christ?
- What’s your favorite Bible verse and why?
- How do you incorporate prayer into your daily life?
- What role does your faith play in your decision-making process?
- Do you have a favorite Christian author or book?
- How do you stay connected with your faith community?
- What’s your favorite worship song?
- How do you handle doubts or questions about your faith?
- What’s a recent spiritual lesson you’ve learned?
Church and Community
These questions will help you understand your crush’s involvement in their church and how they engage with their faith community. It’s a great way to see how they live out their beliefs in everyday life.
- What do you look for in a church?
- How often do you attend church services?
- Are you involved in any church activities or ministries?
- What’s your favorite church event or tradition?
- How do you serve your community through your church?
- What’s the most impactful sermon you’ve ever heard?
- How do you stay connected with your church outside of Sunday services?
- Do you have a mentor or spiritual advisor?
- What’s a memorable experience you’ve had with your church community?
- How do you see your role in the church evolving over time?
Personal Growth and Development
These questions focus on personal and spiritual growth. They’ll help you understand how your crush pursues growth and handles challenges in their faith journey.
- What’s a recent spiritual goal you’ve set for yourself?
- How do you study the Bible?
- How do you balance your spiritual life with other aspects of your life?
- What’s a book that has had a significant impact on your faith?
- How do you handle difficult situations with faith?
- What’s a habit you’ve developed to grow spiritually?
- How do you seek God’s guidance in your life?
- What’s a prayer you often find yourself praying?
- How do you stay encouraged during tough times?
- What’s an area of your faith you’d like to improve or grow in?
Values and Principles
Knowing your crush’s values and principles can provide insight into their character and how they live out their faith daily. These questions will help you understand their moral compass.
- What’s the most important value you hold as a Christian?
- How do you practice forgiveness?
- What does integrity mean to you?
- How do you show love to others in your daily life?
- What’s your approach to dealing with conflicts?
- How do you make sure you stay true to your values?
- What’s your view on service and helping others?
- How do you handle peer pressure or societal expectations?
- What’s an example of a time you stood up for your beliefs?
- How do you ensure you’re living a life that honors God?
Relationships and Future
These questions focus on your crush’s views on relationships, marriage, and the future. They will help you see if you share the same goals and visions for a future together.
- What qualities do you look for in a partner?
- How important is it for you to share the same faith with your partner?
- What’s your view on marriage?
- How do you think faith influences a healthy relationship?
- What’s your approach to conflict resolution in relationships?
- How do you envision raising children in faith?
- What’s your idea of a Christ-centered relationship?
- How do you maintain a balance between personal growth and relationship growth?
- What’s your view on pre-marital counseling?
- How do you plan to keep God at the center of your future family?
Fun and Light-hearted
These questions are lighter and more fun, helping you see a playful side of your crush while still being connected through your shared faith.
- What’s your favorite Christian movie or TV show?
- If you could meet any Biblical figure, who would it be and why?
- What’s your favorite Christian holiday and how do you celebrate it?
- What’s a funny church experience you’ve had?
- Do you have a favorite Christian podcast or radio show?
- If you could witness any event in the Bible, what would it be?
- What’s a fun fact about your church that not many people know?
- If you could design a church event, what would it be like?
- What’s your favorite Christian tradition in your family?
- If you could write a faith-based book, what would it be about?
Building a Strong Christian Relationship
Creating a strong Christian relationship involves mutual understanding, shared values, and consistent growth in faith. It’s essential to communicate openly, pray together, and support each other’s spiritual journeys.
Navigating Faith Together
Navigating faith as a couple means prioritizing spiritual growth and finding ways to integrate your beliefs into your relationship. Regularly attending church, studying the Bible, and praying together can strengthen your bond and deepen your connection.
