Valentine’s Day is the perfect excuse to turn up the heat with your crush.

If you’ve been waiting for the right moment to grab his attention, a spicy text might be all you need.

It’s fun, bold, and flirty—and it can definitely leave him wanting more.

I know it can feel a little intimidating to send the first text, but trust me, confidence is everything.

Here are 69 spicy messages to make him blush, smirk, and maybe even start counting down the minutes until he sees you again.

Flirty Texts to Grab His Attention

I don’t need a Valentine’s card when I can just send you this text instead.
So, are you going to be my Valentine, or do I need to convince you?
If I could send you a kiss through this message, I would.
I keep getting distracted today… and yes, it’s your fault.
What’s a girl gotta do to get your attention on Valentine’s Day?
You’ve been on my mind all day, and I’m not even trying to stop it.
Quick question: Are you this attractive every day, or is Valentine’s Day special?
I was going to play it cool, but you’ve already ruined my focus today.
Just imagining how cute you’d look as my Valentine is making me smile.
If I told you I was thinking about you right now, what would you say?

Teasing Texts to Keep Him Curious

I hope you’re ready for some attention because I’ve got my sights set on you.
Guess who can’t stop thinking about you today? Hint: It’s me.
If I made the first move, would you make the second?
Do you know how hard it is to focus when someone as irresistible as you exists?
Just wondering how it feels to be someone’s entire daydream.
I bet you look even better in person today than you do in my imagination.
Should I text you something bold, or do you already know how much I like you?
I may or may not be blushing while sending this text… your fault.
Are you free tonight, or do I need to convince you to make time for me?
If you’re looking for a reason to smile today, just imagine me thinking about you.

I’m not shy about admitting you’re the best part of my day.
You’re making Valentine’s Day feel way more interesting than I expected.
I’m not saying you’re the most attractive guy I’ve ever seen, but… okay, yes, I am.
If I showed up at your door with chocolate, would you let me in?
You’re dangerously close to making me fall for you completely.
Just so you know, I’m imagining us together right now—and it’s a good thought.
I can’t stop smiling because I keep picturing your face.
You’ve officially made this Valentine’s Day unforgettable, and it’s just getting started.
I’m tempted to tell you all the things I’ve been thinking about you… should I?
If you were here right now, I’d probably be staring at you with a goofy grin.

I think you’re trouble, and I like it.
You’re the kind of guy that’s impossible to ignore, and I don’t even want to try.
Do you always make people this flustered, or is it just me?
I’ve got this feeling you’d make an amazing Valentine…
You’re like my favorite song—completely stuck in my head, and I’m not mad about it.
If I told you I was imagining kissing you right now, would you stop me?
You’ve got this way of making my heart race—and my mind wander.
I think you and I could make some seriously good memories together.
You’re a little too tempting for your own good.
I hope you know you’re dangerously close to becoming my new obsession.

I can’t stop thinking about how your lips would feel against mine.
You’ve got this look that drives me wild, and it’s not even fair.
I’m not saying I want to kiss you right now, but… okay, I definitely do.
Just thinking about you is enough to leave me a little breathless.
You’re the kind of guy who makes me lose track of time… and control.
If you were here right now, I’m not sure I’d be able to keep my hands to myself.
I hope you’re ready for the attention you’re about to get from me.
Your smile is my favorite thing, but I wouldn’t mind exploring the rest of you.
I can’t decide if I want to tease you more or just tell you how much I want you.
You’ve been driving me crazy all day, and I don’t even mind.

Goodnight, handsome. Dream of me tonight—I know I’ll be dreaming of you.
You’re the last thing on my mind before I fall asleep, and I wouldn’t have it any other way.
If I could send you a kiss goodnight, I would.
Sweet dreams, my favorite person. You’ve definitely made my day better.
I hope you know you’re the reason I’m going to bed with a huge smile tonight.
Close your eyes and imagine me next to you. That’s where I want to be.
I’m going to sleep happy tonight because I’ve been thinking about you all day.
You’re the best part of my day, every day.
Dream of me tonight… because I’ll be dreaming about you.
Goodnight, my favorite distraction. Can’t wait to think about you more tomorrow.

A spicy text is all about balance. You want to sound confident, flirty, and fun—without overthinking it.

Timing is key. Send your message when you know he’s free to respond, so the conversation can flow naturally.

Keep it personal. A text that feels tailored to your connection will make him feel special and leave a bigger impact.

Don’t stress about being perfect. The best texts come from the heart (with a dash of boldness).

So go ahead and pick your favorite, hit send, and let the sparks fly!