I get it – being ignored by someone you care about really stings.
That’s why I’ve created 85 texts that will get your message across and make him think twice about his actions.
These messages are broken down into categories so you can find one that fits your mood, whether you’re feeling hurt, frustrated, or ready to move on.
Sometimes the right text is all you need to express what’s on your mind. Let’s find the perfect one together.
Honest and Direct
- “I don’t understand why you’re ignoring me.”
- “I thought we were better than this.”
- “It hurts to be ignored by someone I care about.”
- “I deserve at least a reply.”
- “Being ignored feels worse than being rejected.”
- “I’m not sure what I did to deserve this silence.”
- “I thought you valued our relationship.”
- “Ignoring me won’t make the problem go away.”
- “I wish you’d just talk to me.”
- “I miss our conversations.”
Thoughtful and Reflective
- “I’ve been thinking about us, and it makes me sad.”
- “We used to be so close. What happened?”
- “Ignoring someone doesn’t solve anything.”
- “I miss the way we used to talk.”
- “You’re not the person I thought you were.”
- “I valued our friendship more than you know.”
- “I’ve been nothing but supportive, yet you ignore me.”
- “I guess I misjudged our connection.”
- “I never expected this from you.”
- “I miss the person you used to be.”
Emotional and Heartfelt
- “It breaks my heart to be ignored by you.”
- “I thought we had something special.”
- “I can’t believe you’d treat me like this.”
- “I’ve always been there for you.”
- “I’m hurt more than I can express.”
- “This silence is killing me.”
- “I never thought you’d ignore me.”
- “I trusted you with my feelings.”
- “You meant a lot to me.”
- “I thought you cared.”
Subtle and Thought-Provoking
- “Silence speaks louder than words.”
- “Actions speak louder than silence.”
- “I thought you were different.”
- “Ignoring me shows your true colors.”
- “I didn’t expect this from you.”
- “I guess I was wrong about us.”
- “Silence can say so much.”
- “I see what kind of person you are now.”
- “I thought you respected me.”
- “Ignoring someone is never the answer.”
Light and Sarcastic
- “Wow, your silence is deafening.”
- “Ignoring me? Classy move.”
- “I didn’t know you were so good at disappearing.”
- “Your communication skills are top-notch.”
- “Thanks for showing me where I stand.”
- “Nice to know I’m worth a response.”
- “Your silence speaks volumes.”
- “Great, now I know how you really feel.”
- “Thanks for the clarity.”
- “Ignoring me is so mature.”
Casual and Indifferent
- “Guess you’re too busy for me.”
- “I see you’re good at multitasking. Ignoring and avoiding.”
- “I got the message. Loud and clear.”
- “Hope your day is as great as your ignoring skills.”
- “Thanks for making things clear.”
- “I’ll take your silence as an answer.”
- “Guess I’m not a priority.”
- “Got it. You’re busy.”
- “Noted. You’re not interested.”
- “Thanks for the heads-up.”
Gentle and Understanding
- “I hope everything’s okay on your end.”
- “If you need space, just let me know.”
- “I’m here if you need to talk.”
- “I wish you’d let me in.”
- “I’m worried about you.”
- “I miss our talks. Hope all is well.”
- “I hope you’re doing okay.”
- “I’m here whenever you’re ready.”
- “I understand if you need time.”
- “I care about you. Please talk to me.”
Encouraging and Positive
- “We can work through this if we communicate.”
- “I believe in solving issues, not ignoring them.”
- “Let’s not let silence ruin what we have.”
- “I’m open to talking whenever you are.”
- “We’re stronger together than apart.”
- “Ignoring isn’t the answer. Let’s talk.”
- “Our relationship deserves better.”
- “We can get through this.”
- “Let’s not let silence be our downfall.”
- “We owe it to ourselves to communicate.”
Introspective and Personal
- “I’ve been reflecting on our relationship.”
- “I’ve always been honest with you.”
- “I deserve more than being ignored.”
- “I value open communication.”
- “Ignoring me won’t change how I feel.”
The Impact of Ignoring in Relationships
Being ignored can be one of the most hurtful experiences in a relationship. It can lead to feelings of rejection, confusion, and self-doubt. Addressing this issue head-on by expressing your feelings can help clear the air and potentially resolve underlying problems. Open and honest communication is key to maintaining a healthy relationship.
Encouraging Open Communication
When someone ignores you, it’s important to encourage open communication. Let them know how their silence affects you and express your desire to understand and resolve any issues. Sometimes, people need a gentle reminder that talking things through is healthier and more productive than ignoring the problem. By fostering an environment of trust and openness, you can strengthen your relationship and avoid the negative impact of being ignored.
Use these texts to express your feelings and encourage him to open up. Show him that you care about resolving the issue and maintaining a healthy, communicative relationship.