Building a connection with someone special often starts with the right communication. Sending engaging texts can spark his interest and encourage him to take the next step.
Here are 90 texts to get him to ask you out, divided into different categories to suit various moods and situations.
Flirty and Fun
- “I heard about this great new restaurant, have you been?”
- “I bet you can’t guess my favorite dessert.”
- “You always make me smile. We should hang out sometime.”
- “Guess who thought of you today? Yep, me.”
- “I’m looking for a fun adventure. Know any good places?”
- “Ever tried [activity]? It’s on my bucket list!”
- “I need a partner for trivia night. Interested?”
- “You seem like someone who knows how to have fun.”
- “Do you know any good places for a weekend hike?”
- “I’ve been craving [food]. Know any good spots?”
Sweet and Subtle
- “You make my day better. We should hang out more.”
- “I enjoy our conversations. Let’s have one in person.”
- “You have such interesting stories. I’d love to hear more.”
- “Your taste in music is amazing. Want to share playlists?”
- “We should grab coffee sometime and chat more.”
- “I’d love to hear your opinion on [topic].”
- “You always brighten my day. Let’s hang out soon.”
- “You seem like someone who enjoys good company.”
- “I think we’d have a lot of fun together.”
- “You have great taste in [interest]. Let’s explore it together.”
Bold and Direct
- “I really enjoy talking to you. Want to hang out this weekend?”
- “We should definitely go out sometime. How about this Friday?”
- “I’d love to take you out for dinner. Are you free this week?”
- “We have so much in common. Let’s do something fun together.”
- “I think we’d make a great team. How about a date?”
- “I’d like to get to know you better. Let’s go out.”
- “You’re really interesting. Want to hang out soon?”
- “I’d love to see you. Are you free this weekend?”
- “You seem like a lot of fun. Let’s go out sometime.”
- “I’m free this weekend. Want to do something together?”
Playful and Teasing
- “Bet you can’t beat me at [game]. Challenge accepted?”
- “I heard you’re great at [activity]. Prove it?”
- “You seem like someone who loves adventures. Up for one?”
- “Do you have any cool plans this weekend?”
- “I’m bored. Know any fun things to do?”
- “You’re pretty awesome. Let’s see if you’re this fun in person.”
- “I bet you can’t make me laugh in person.”
- “You owe me a fun day out. When are we going?”
- “You talk a big game. Can you back it up in person?”
- “You seem like trouble. Want to cause some together?”
Thoughtful and Sincere
- “I’d love to hear more about your interests. Want to grab a coffee?”
- “You have such fascinating ideas. Let’s discuss them over dinner.”
- “I appreciate your perspective. Can we chat more in person?”
- “I enjoy our conversations. Let’s continue them in person.”
- “You seem really thoughtful. I’d love to hang out sometime.”
- “I think we’d have some great discussions. Let’s meet up.”
- “Your insights are amazing. Want to share more over coffee?”
- “I’d love to hear more about your experiences.”
- “You’re really interesting. Let’s hang out and talk more.”
- “I think we’d have a lot to share. Want to meet up?”
Light and Casual
- “I’m going to [event]. Want to join?”
- “We should catch a movie sometime.”
- “I’m free this weekend. Want to hang out?”
- “You seem cool. We should hang out more.”
- “I know a great place for [activity]. Want to go?”
- “We should grab a drink sometime.”
- “I’m headed to [place]. Want to come along?”
- “I’d love to hang out sometime.”
- “You’re fun to talk to. Let’s hang out soon.”
- “I know a great spot for [interest]. Want to check it out?”
Creative and Unique
- “There’s a new exhibit at the museum. Want to go?”
- “I’m planning a fun day trip. Want to join me?”
- “Do you like [activity]? Let’s do it together.”
- “I found this cool place. Want to explore it with me?”
- “There’s a festival this weekend. Want to go together?”
- “I love [interest]. Do you? Let’s do it together.”
- “I’m checking out this new spot. Want to come?”
- “Do you like surprises? I have one in mind.”
- “I’m trying out [new thing]. Want to join me?”
- “I’ve got tickets to [event]. Want to come along?”
Light and Funny
- “You, me, and some great food. What do you think?”
- “I’m convinced we’d have the best time together.”
- “Want to see if we can make each other laugh in person?”
- “I’m pretty sure we’d make a great team.”
- “How about a date with some good laughs?”
- “You seem like fun. Let’s hang out.”
- “I bet we’d have a blast together.”
- “I’m convinced we’d get along great.”
- “You seem cool. Want to hang out?”
- “I think we’d have a lot of fun together.”
Building Anticipation
- “I’ve got a fun idea for us. Want to hear it?”
- “I know a place that you’ll love. Let’s go there.”
- “I’ve been thinking about us hanging out. What do you say?”
- “I’ve got a great plan for us. Interested?”
- “You seem like someone who loves fun. Let’s hang out.”
- “I’ve got tickets to [event]. Want to come?”
- “I think we’d have an amazing time together.”
- “I’m pretty sure we’d get along great in person.”
- “I’ve got a surprise for you. Want to find out what it is?”
- “I think we’d have a lot of fun together. Want to hang out?”
Encouraging Him to Ask You Out
Sending thoughtful and engaging texts can make him more inclined to ask you out. These messages show your interest and hint at the fun and connection you could share. By expressing your curiosity and enthusiasm, you make it easier for him to take the next step.
Creating Opportunities for Connection
When crafting your texts, think about what you enjoy and how you can share those interests with him. Mentioning specific activities or events can provide a clear opportunity for him to ask you out. This approach not only sparks his interest but also makes the idea of spending time together more tangible and appealing.
Use these texts to encourage him to ask you out and build a deeper connection. Show your personality, make it fun, and look forward to the time you’ll spend together.
